Last week, i had the worst nightmare, I still remember it vividly despite being famous for not remembering any dreams.
My younger brother who is in and out of prison all the time and who is in prison right now has been sentenced to three years last week, he was so relive to get the news as he was expecting the death penalty this time, not because he has killed anyone but because he has done multiply crimes through the years attacking people and that is considered to be punishable by death in the sharia law applied in Saudi Arabia based on this verse in the Quran .
| {33} إِنَّمَا جَزَاءُ الَّذِينَ يُحَارِبُونَ اللَّهَ وَرَسُولَهُ وَيَسْعَوْنَ فِي الْأَرْضِ فَسَادًا أَنْ يُقَتَّلُوا أَوْ يُصَلَّبُوا أَوْ تُقَطَّعَ أَيْدِيهِمْ وَأَرْجُلُهُمْ مِنْ خِلَافٍ أَوْ يُنْفَوْا مِنَ الْأَرْضِ ذَلِكَ لَهُمْ خِزْيٌ فِي الدُّنْيَا وَلَهُمْ فِي الْآخِرَةِ عَذَابٌ عَظِيمٌ |
The punishment of those who wage war against Allah and His Messenger, and strive with might and main for mischief through the land is: execution, or crucifixion, or the cutting off of hands and feet from opposite sides, or exile from the land: that is their disgrace in this world, and a heavy punishment is theirs in the Hereafter;"
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He would be in the category of those "strive with might and main for mischief through the land"
That day I got the worst nightmare that I could remember in my whole life, and like all my nightmares it happened in my grandfather building where we used to live.
There, the authority brought my brother in front of the house and the moment they took him out of the car they started killing him by the sword in front of my eyes, I couldn't stop screaming and yelling to my mom that they did it and for the first time I saw how helpless he was -and he is never but an aggressive young man-. I woke up shaking like never before. And till this day I can not forget the dream and the pain I felt in it and when I woke up.
I have talked many times here about my relationship with my brothers especially the younger one but this post is actually not about him. It's actually about death penalty in general.
In the previous years, I became more and more a huge believer of all peaceful movements and approaches towards all things happening in our life including "the Death penalty".I am at least 90 % against it right now and for its halt everywhere in the world. "an eye for an eye leaves the whole world blind" as Gandhi said and that violence has solved nothing.
To ask for the death penalty for a criminal won't bring those innocent ones back. And yes those killers are victims themselves, victim of the injustice they have been through their whole life. we are born innocent and pure, none of us born evil or good, it's what nurture and nature do to us that turn us to who we are.
How can we bring back the justice to someone who has been killed and tortured by killing those responsible for it whether we kill them by sword-my country's favorite way- or by hanging or guns. !!
In my country millions of dollars are collected all the time to save someone from the death penalty because the dead victim's family say the will forgive him if "such amount of time is paid" and that amount of time is always by millions. How can a million or ten bring you the peace of mind and heart after losing your loved ones .
Nothing brings that peace but forgiveness .
From a religious point of view-and you probably know by now that i don't follow the steps of religion all the way-doesn't the Quran ask us to be forgiven and insist on that all the way ?
And from a mean person point of view, locking someone for life or twenty years is a greater way to make them suffer than killing them.
What surprises me in me is despite my believe in everything peaceful, I still gloat when someone evil is killed by the hero in movies and always look for excuses for the evil guy to be killed so innocent people would live happily.
But seriously how can people's lives be saved if bad guys are not killed such as the Syrian president right now ? "Wondering"
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ـ(ولكم في القصاص {حياة} يا أولي الألباب..لعلكم تتقون)ـالهدف من القصاص هو حفظ الحياة:حياة الجاني والمجني عليه قبل أن ترتكب الجريمة! لا اعتراض على الشريعة الإلهية ولكنني أشاركك وجهة النظر. وهذا هو القصد من القصاص..أن يردع المجرم قبل ارتكابه للجريمة!!! (لي عودة لمتابعة كتاباتك السابقة بإذن الله بعد التخرج) :) ـ
It's a mechanism: Deterrence is the point in the first place. The violent punishment is nothing but to deter the criminal before committing the crime. Personally I find the punishments harsh.. and make me feel sick!! Just if all criminals thought of the punishment and felt sick before committing a crime.. then the hero wouldn't have to kill a criminal at the end of the show!!.
Thank you for sharing the personal aspect of this challenging topic. I am fully against the death penalty. There is very good evidence showing that it is not a deterrent to crime. For that reason, and the risk of miscarriage of justice most countries have abolished the death penalty, and many who still have it don't apply it. That includes Muslim countries. Saudi Arabia, Iran, China, and the USA are exceptions internationally.
I am glad your brother was spared greater punishment, and I hope he finds a way to function better in society on his release.
Samaa,
هي حكمة آلهية لها مغزى لانعرفه بالتاكيد و هو جزاء رادع بالطبع لكن ايضا امرنا بالعفو و المغفرة وان جزاءهم اكبر عند الله فلما لانحاول النظر الى العفو بدلا من الانتقام
و بانتظار عودتك عزيزتي و بالتوفيق ان شاءالله :)
but have all criminals stop their crimes due to this harsh punishment !!. How about the rates of the crimes in countries where the death penalty is there and countries that don't allow it !!. I feel like it's a kind of deterrence but is it working? .
Thanks for comment my dear and good luck with your exams :)
Chiara,
and crimes are still high in these countries, so you are right the punishment is not helping..
and i wonder how and why do punish our our race this severely !!
Amen to that, he has been in and out many times so it shows that he has not learned his lessons but hope is always there :)
Killing the aggressor is a faster way to deal with the problem and that's how history has showed us.And we know history is not very kind indeed!The cycle hardly breaks except for compassion,forgiveness and love.The question is how does one show these to an aggressor? That's not easy at all,I say! For myself,I feel and believe that we are all one and the same.When I am this way,my pain and joy is yours too.And yours is mine.We shouldn't feel separated and that's exactly what inclusitivity aims to achieve.Thru' this I believe there's great hope :)
Lat,
and that's prove that's history keeps repeating itself and never correct it :(
l love how compassionate and loving you are my dear friend and honestly hope that more people are like you so hope will grow and spread :)
What a horrible nightmare! I'm sorry about the problems you have had with your brother, but I'm so glad his life was spared! Thanks for sharing your reasons for disagreeing with the death penalty.
Susanne,
Yes, we are so glad too. nobody deserves to die and everybody deserves a second chance..
Thanks a lot for your kind words and you are welcome my dear :)
Wafa,
The unconditional love you have for him breaks my heart; I can't imagine what you must be going through for his sake.
All that, and you still see him as your baby brother.
I pray that one day I may love mine with even a bit of that courage and strength as you have yours.
Alia,
There were a long time when we don't speak, hate each other, and the pain he caused us is still there..
but I guess time makes you forgive without necessarily to forget. And maybe his situation where he is always threatened with being locked away for good or maybe died that really make you let it go because you might not see him again..
I don't know...
And Amen my dear. May you and your brothers will always be close and have the respect and bond we didn't have :)
I'm really sorry about the issues with your brother :(
I'm fully against the death penalty, although I also understand why people would support it. For me, not only has it been shown not to work, it is much more expensive than keeping someone imprisoned for life, and I think imprisonment for life is a greater punishment, but, if just ONE innocent person dies this way, I can't support it.
Becky,
Me too understand those with the death penalty but I think that the whole system should change and then people's view would change with it.
And 100% true, punish people by leaving there for life not killing them, that would teach a lesson.
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