Comments on My World and More ..: Why Would You Drop the Charges?

Gyal, Thanks for the comment and the nice award, ...

2012-02-20T21:11:18.135+03:00

Gyal,

Thanks for the comment and the nice award, they mean a lot to me honestly :)

will honor it very soon :)

Family pressure can stifle a girl in many ways. Pl...

2012-02-19T16:03:10.263+03:00

Family pressure can stifle a girl in many ways. Please don't stop blogging, it gives you a voice. Besides, I've just said [on my blog] that you're versatile :-)

Izdiher, It's :(

2012-02-05T20:05:12.131+03:00

Izdiher,

It's :(

Becky, I agree completely and it's a very sad...

2012-02-05T20:04:57.504+03:00

Becky,

I agree completely and it's a very sad situation :(

THIS IS JUST CRAZY.

2012-02-05T14:52:21.806+03:00

THIS IS JUST CRAZY.

I agree with Aseel, in a perfect world, I'd sa...

2012-02-03T19:18:27.300+03:00

I agree with Aseel, in a perfect world, I'd say never drop the charges. In a perfect world, women (and men) would always get the support they need, in order to go through with the charges, but sadly, this is a very imperfect and unjust world, and I understand there are circumstances where it feels easier to just drop the charges, and in some situations, it might be safer for the woman to do so. Unfortunately, it only makes it harder for everyone in the long run, as no example is ever set. Not that I would ever judge a woman who chose not to follow through with the charges.

Angelle, it's indeed very sad and disturbing ...

2012-01-30T23:11:25.990+03:00

Angelle,

it's indeed very sad and disturbing the ability we have on each other's life and how easily we can destroy people :(

Life goes on and we should learn how to cope and survive such burden, it's not easy at all, so many times you would find yourself going so deep but then you have to get back..I am trying my best to do that and survive..sadly I can not move out of the house, that's not a system here in my country beside our whole house should move out of our house since we are all abusers and abused !!

Thanks a lot my friend for the kind words and prayers :)

Cher Wafa, You are very brave. Many abused peopl...

2012-01-28T06:16:56.075+03:00

Cher Wafa,

You are very brave. Many abused people just despair; lose the will to live -- it is just so hard to fight not only the abuser, but all those in power who are on his side. It is unbelievable what we humans are able to do to one another.

Thank God we as humans are able to survive and strive in enduring. I pray that you find strength not only to endure, but to thrive and become free from such oppressive circumstances. Is it possible for you to move? If not to live on your own, then perhaps in your older brother's house?

I don't care if the abuser is drunk or not. It's monstrous.

Keeping you in my heart and prayers.

Angelle

lat, some people are just pure "evil" o...

2012-01-27T00:13:41.976+03:00

lat,

some people are just pure "evil" or probably he is simply a sick bastard.

you just can not but feel sorry for human beings sometimes and you are right apparently they have not evolve at all :(

thanks for your kind words and prayers my dear. InshAllah things will be getting better for every abused woman out there :)

Oh God! Those injuries look like hell! How could a...

2012-01-26T10:14:07.191+03:00

Oh God! Those injuries look like hell! How could a woman endure such torture :( A few times I ran away from my marital home because of my MIL.To think that people had gone thru' much worse situations really stifles me.I'm so sorry that some humans have not evolve and still won't to make changes in our lives in search for peace.

I really couldn't have stand a situation as yours,Wafa.But then again I didn't grow up there.I've withstood abuse but that pales in comparison to yours.I really wish that God gives you the happiness and peace you so deserve.Now I'm really sad...abuse her with screwdriver! (shaking head)

Zarina, Thank you so much for the support and kin...

2012-01-25T05:03:13.047+03:00

Zarina,

Thank you so much for the support and kind words, I really really appreciate them a lot :)

And amen :)

Um Ommar, ابدا .. المشكلة انهم انقسموا قسمين .. س...

2012-01-25T05:02:17.502+03:00

Um Ommar,

ابدا .. المشكلة انهم انقسموا قسمين .. سيئين او ساكتين عن السوء
:(

Aseel, I agree completely with you, if it's i...

2012-01-25T05:01:22.539+03:00

Aseel,

I agree completely with you, if it's in another world !! so many times I cried with some of my colleagues hearing the things they are going through and what's hurt more is that they can not do anything to go out of the situation they are in..and then we have to pretend that nothing happen..

Thanks a lot for your kind words and your encouragement my dear :)

Dear sister Wafa I am so sorry to hear about your...

2012-01-24T19:04:03.099+03:00

Dear sister Wafa

I am so sorry to hear about your ordeal. It may be difficult for you to know whether you did the right thing or not,but you only did what was best for your own safety. May Allah make it easy for you and give you ease in all matters, Inshaa-Allah.

مظلش رجال بالدنيا شكله؟؟؟

2012-01-24T09:46:44.547+03:00

مظلش رجال بالدنيا شكله؟؟؟

if it were a sane world, I would encourage that wo...

2012-01-23T23:26:42.909+03:00

if it were a sane world, I would encourage that woman to never drop the charges.. That man deserves to rot in prison all his life and then suffer in hell in the life after.

but the problem is that this is a crazy world. Im not judging that woman. but she could be in a situation where she has to depend on someone because she is not educated nor employed and most likely non of her family members will take care of her. So to her, dropping the charges in exchange of a divorce and a large sum of money is a good deal.. So sorry for her and for all the women who go through such situations.

I think you have done the right thing of not dropping the charges. Unlike that victim you are strong and empowered. you are independent and out spoken and its not about everyone else as much as it is about you because you matter the most my dear.. Never question your decision trust me it was the right one and never question the reason of your existence, i believe one of them is to speak up about this issue and on behalf of all the women.